Thursday, April 21, 2011

5 Successful Dating Tips For Men Seeking Women



"Pretty Woman, walking down the street..."

Have you heard this song...?

Maybe not, but on one occasion or another you might have hummed the melody. Or, in an act of boldness, you may have tried singing this song while attempting to woo a pretty young woman. Did your attempt at flirtation work? Even though you may not have been able to get the pretty woman of your dreams, you should not give up on dating altogether.

Here Are 5 Practical Dating Advice Tips For Men:

Men Seeking Women Should Always Be On Good Behavior - Many young ladies like manly etiquette more than monetary riches or financial wealth. In the role of friend or suitor, you want your date to feel socially comfortable all the times. However, this does not mean that a pauper will be the first choice of a pretty woman. A guy with ordinary looks, who can afford a nice restaurant date on occasion is easy to appreciate. If the guy has a great sense of humor along with good manners, it is easier for her to say yes when asked out on several dates.

Guys Should Always Be Understanding Of Gender Differences - No matter what anyone says, guys and girls think differently. Guys go for green and blue. Girls go for pink and red. How many manly guys have you seen wearing a hot pink shirt? Or tight revealing shorts? It takes a certain way of thinking to play 82 games of professional basketball each season, or sixteen games of pro football. The media would have you abandon all common sense for the sake of selling magazines and political correctness. Will political correctness help you have a successful date? Not likely. A man should treat a woman like a woman and she will appreciate it. If she smiles and waits for the door to be opened for her, then accept the fact that she wants to be treated a certain way and expects you to treat her accordingly. Be observant and understand her rules and expectations.

Most Women Like A Man With A Good Sense Of Humor - Would you like to go out with someone who is an absolute bore? Of course not. Show your date that you have a good sense of humor and know how to laugh at yourself and laugh at life sometimes. There are far too many people who get angry at the drop of a hat and become insulted and even vindictive over the slightest insult. Show her that you are not that kind of person. You can roll with the punches and not be phased. You can learn to use humor to demonstrate your complete self-confidence.

Men Seeking Women Should Be Honest - Honesty is very important in a relationship. This does not mean that you need to reveal every thought that you think. That would be silly. But it does mean that when you are asked a direct question, you tell the truth without trying to hide or confuse the issue. You should not afraid to be honest. There are many ways to be honest without being too raw or even insulting. Words have power and a careful choice of words can be life changing.

A Man Seeking A Special Relationship With A Woman Should Consider Compatibility - Quite often compatibility is overlooked. There are many dating websites that make their living by focusing on the importance of man-female compatibility. These websites require lengthy questionnaires that are supposed to reveal the "real you" so that there will be "blissful harmony" in the relationship. My own experience leads me to believe that there is no such thing. In my view, compatibility is more along the lines of simply understanding the sexual differences and working from that foundation. I do not mean compatibility in the sense that a man should have a mirror image of himself in female form as a mate. When I speak of compatibility I am referring to someone who will laugh at your jokes even when she thinks they are goofy or not really all that funny. A man seeking a special relationship with a woman should look for someone who can compliment his weaknesses, not parrot everything he says or does. The Chinese refer to the Yin and Yang as opposite, yet complementary. The male energy should bring strength to the female and the woman should bring sensitivity and intuitive insight to the man.

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