How To Impress A Girl - The Number One Mistake Most Men Make

Do you really want to know how to impress a girl? Are you prepared to forget everything you thought you knew about girls and how they think and replace it with the truth?

Would you like a peek inside the mind of a typical girl and discover exactly what it is she is looking for in a man? Then read on.

Nearly all men make this basic mistake. It goes back to the times when a woman would select her mate by looking for the qualities that would give her children the best chance of survival in a hostile environment.

So men who were strong and athletic, or who showed bravery or exceptional intelligence, would easily find a woman, because that's what women were generally looking for.

That was but an eye blink ago in evolutionary terms, in the stone age - by far the longest age to date in the history of man. Although we have progressed to living in an advanced civilization, our stone-age bodies and minds have yet to catch up.

That's why men still try to impress women in this way, i.e. "look at how strong, or brave, or clever I am - aren't I the greatest among men with the ability to pass my superior genes onto your children?" This isn't a conscious thought, of course, but it's how nature has programmed men to behave. It's part of every man's genetic makeup.

Have you never tried to impress a girl with how strong, athletic, brave or witty or clever you are? Probably you have, and you'd be sharing this in common with nearly all other men who have ever wanted to learn how to impress a girl. But in a modern, civilised environment this attitude is not only no longer helpful to you, but positively counter-productive.

Of course it's better for a man to be strong than weak, intelligent rather than dim-witted, but it's not the point here.

The point is that when a man tries to impress a girl with how strong or witty he is, it usually leaves the girl nonplussed, and the man's efforts end in failure.

What will impress the girl, then? The one thing that will impress nearly all girls is this. Your ability, or implied promise, to make her happy, and feeling appreciated for what she is. She's probably not particularly interested in feeling good about how wonderful you are. She only wants to know if you can make her feel wonderful.

Men who know how to get girlfriends know this secret.

Can you make a girl feel like that? Do you treat her like a loved one, carrying any heavy bags she has with her, walking on the outside when on the pavement or sidewalk, and showing her little courtesies like that when appropriate?

Would you face any enemy, no matter how numerous or hostile, and no matter how outnumbered or weak you may be, in order to protect her from harm?

If you can do all this, and never ever leave her alone while you chat with your mates, without making sure she has someone to talk to, and always put her needs and requirements ahead of your own, then you know how to impress a girl.