Dating For the Socially Awkward

Dating can be tough for just about anybody, but if you feel like you are amongst the 'socially awkward,' it can be really tough. Dating is inherently a very social activity, and if you don't feel quite like yourself or you feel kind of awkward in this kind of situation, it can be hard to deal with. The good thing is that this does not have to be something that holds you back for good or makes it impossible for you to attract someone and have a good, thriving relationship. It just means that you are going to have to take some steps to get over your awkwardness and feel more relaxed and comfortable when out on a date or looking to meet someone.

A lot of people feel a little insecure and awkward when it comes to going out on a date or going out with the specific intent to meet someone. Even people who are considered to be 'social butterflies' can end up feeling this way. You are not alone if it can get kind of frustrating to feel this way. Luckily, it does not have to stay this way for YOU forever.

Here are some dating tips for the socially awkward that can help make meeting new people a lot easier for YOU:

1. Don't try and make things happen too quickly.

While you don't want to end up being someone who doesn't bother to try and meet new people at all, you also don't need to feel a rush to get out there too quickly. For someone who feels awkward in social situations, trying too hard to make things happen quickly can just end up making them feel worse. Take your time and be patient. Realize that there are LOTS of people out there, so you do not need to feel like you might miss out anytime soon.

2. Surround yourself in environments that make you feel comfortable.

Even if you do feel socially awkward in some situations, there are probably other situations where you don't feel that way or at least, not as much. Of course, if the only setting that makes you feel comfortable is at home, then you are going to have to do something to get used to being outside of your home. Still, when you can surround yourself in environments that DO make you feel more at ease, you can deal with whatever awkwardness you might feel a lot better.

3. Look to meet new people in places that you might not think of.

If you don't feel quite relaxed or comfortable in places like bars and nightclubs to meet someone, then you may want to look at other places that you can go. Joining a local group of like minded people with similar interests can help you to meet someone and not feel so self conscious. Using the internet or online dating sites to meet someone can also be a good idea to interact with people in a way that may make you feel a little more relaxed.