How to Tell If a Guy Is Serious - Best Method to Discover Whether He's Only Using You For Sex

Knowing how to tell if a guy is serious with you is important so you don't waste your time and feelings on someone who is simply using you for sex. I know how difficult it is for you to figure this out because you've been spending some time talking to a guy, and you're feeling very attracted to him. Your feelings for him may be clouding your judgment.

So use this method to discover if he is only stringing you along in the hopes that you'll have sex with him or not, or whether he wants to have an exclusive relationship with you - and save yourself from future heartbreak.

The best method of how to tell if a guy is serious with you is to stop yourself from having sex with him until you have had clear conversations about these three topics:

1. What he wants in a relationship.


2. What you want in a relationship.


3. That the two of you are going to date exclusively (not seeing or having sex with other people).

If you've already had sex with him, tell him that you won't have sex with him anymore, until you're sure that you want to be in a relationship with him. If he starts to lose interest in you after you say this, it's a clear sign that this guy is not serious with you and only wants a fling. By losing interest I mean he starts to call or see you less, seems distant, or he still only wants to talk about sex.

This is very important! The only way for you to be sure about whether you want to be in a relationship with a man is to listen carefully to what he says, and see if his expectations are a good match to yours. Don't just decide whether to have a relationship with a guy based on your feelings of attraction towards him. Take the time to get to know him better first.

A guy who is serious with you will immediately open up his thoughts and feelings and share more about what he wants in a relationship. In fact, he will ask you what you are looking for in a relationship - and try to convince you of his worthiness. Wait to have sex with a guy only after you're in an exclusive relationship with him, and you'll save yourself a lot of heartache.