Wednesday, April 20, 2011

How To Get Girls - 4 Tips To Help You Succeed



Knowing how to get girls is something most young men would almost die for. Well, no need for that, because here are four tips to ensure you have success nearly every time.

1. Look for someone likely to share your interests.

This depends largely on the kind of person you are. Try and find someone who shares your interests and passions. If you belong to a club or society related to a particular interest, such as a sport or hobby, then it may be that you'll find a girl you like and with whom you have something in common straight away.

This makes for a long-lasting, mutually satisfying relationship better than just looking for a pretty girl. It's surprising how many men waste their time trying to attract a girl who is completely incompatible with their personality purely because she is good looking.

2. Look at yourself from her point of view.

I'm not saying to give yourself a makeover necessarily, but you should always think about what kind of impression you're likely to make on the kind of girl you're looking for.

As long as you avoid appearing to be an oddball, and have no unpleasant mannerisms, smells or social habits then you should have nothing to fear.

3. Make it easy for girls to like you.

It's amazing how many men don't know how to get girls. They complain how they never seem to attract anyone, yet they never put themselves in the shoes of any girl they'd like to befriend.

Even if girls find them attractive on the face of it, they sabotage themselves with a forbidding demeanour. They may as well hang a placard around their neck saying, "Do not approach me". They often pair up with another male looking for women, and console each other about their lack of success by exchanging comments about there being "not much talent" around them.

Avoid this at all costs. Girls don't want to be with gloomy, sad looking men. They want to be with someone who is happy and shows it, who can impart some of that happiness and excitement to them, so they can have their hum-drum lives brightened up. Men who know how to get girlfriends understand this.

So smile frequently. Practice doing this in the mirror to ensure you give off a warm, radiant smile when you want to. Make eye contact easily, smile, and put anyone, not just girls, at ease with you.

4. Focus on her, not yourself.

Don't be full of yourself, talking about things you like and trying to impress her with how fantastic you are. She'll soon tire of hearing all that. Instead, talk about things that interest her. Make her feel that she's the fantastic one.

Compliment her on how she looks, and treat her as if she's a VIP, opening doors, and so on.

Men who know how to get girls do all this, so just copy them.



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