How To Seduce Women - Start Simply With Small Chunking

When you start learning how to seduce women, it's important to start simply. You should begin with what I refer o as "small chunking." Start with your own weaknesses, and work on one thing at a time. Then, once that thing is out of the way, move on to the next. Don't try to take it all in one bite.

Start with this - How good are you at starting conversations with strangers? This is the most basic fundamental of pick up. Lots of guys don't realize when they start out that they're socially awkward. If you've never tried to start a conversation with a girl somewhere, and then you read all of this stuff, it can seem really overwhelming. If you've done that before, you've got a good basis for how this all works.

The idea is to take simple ideas and try them out over and over again. Just go out one night and try 10 or 15 different approaches. With each one, do it simply and naturally. Do whatever you think you should do. If you do this repeatedly, you'll start to see where your weaknesses are. Then, you know that these are the things you need to work on.

When you're approaching women, pay close attention to their responses. This will give you a sort of snapshot of how you look when you're talking to them. You want to get an individualized snapshot, because pick up material is not individually made for you. It's made for everyone. But you can only apply it accurately if you understand yourself individually.

Small chunking means staring with your opener and approaches, and taking in a little bit of information at a time. You've got a basis for a successful start. Once you get information from your initial attempts, you've got a little more info to work with.

It's all about goal setting. You're setting small goals and then working towards one at a time, instead of trying to take it all in at once. In the pick-up game, just like in all areas of life, it's essential to set goals and see them through.

Goals not only get you where you want to go, but they also help you to track progress. You can see how far you've come and compare it to where you were a couple of months ago. It's a fact that goals help people get more done in life.

So, don't try to take it all in at once. Nobody learns how to seduce women in one night. It takes lots of trying different things and looking at how well they work. Do it in small steps, taking in a little at a time, and you'll see major progress in no time.