Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Parenting Tips To Help With Teen Dating



Is your teen dating? Is your teen talking about dating? It is a good idea to help your teen as well as yourself to prepare for teen dating. It is an emotional time for parents along with their teen. Parents want to protect their teen and they want their child to enjoy the experience too.

Part of helping with teen dating as a parent is to help you deal with it properly. Talk with your teen and let them know that you trust them. Parents should have respect for their teen as the teen should also respect the rules. Let the teen know as long as there is respect and trust they will have a better experience.

Start by meeting the person your teen is interested in dating. Talk to your teen and let them know you want to meet their potential date so you are more comfortable with the situation. They might be annoyed, but explain it will help you feel more positive, which will help them have a better time as well. Many parents meet this person just before the date. Nevertheless, an idea is to meet this person and get to know them a little better perhaps by inviting them to dinner. It might be a week before the date or just a few days before, but you will know who your teen will be spending time with during a date. When you meet the date be kind because they could be nervous. Asking questions is okay, but don't overdo it.It is also a good idea to not strive to embarrass your teen. It will not help the situation.

Talk to your teen before the date and let them know you need to have some important information. Parents need to know where their child will be even though most teenagers have cell phones. Parents should be kept informed. Let them know when they should be home, but be reasonable. This is another reason to know what they have planned because you can know how long it should take. An example is if they are going to a movie that is playing at a certain time. If the movie starts at 8 p.m. it is not reasonable to expect them home at 9 p.m.

Welcome them home after the date and ask them casually if they had fun. They may start a conversation and they may not.



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