The Nightclub Is the Worst Place to Meet Someone

Meeting someone in a nightclub is the worst way to meet anyone. Meeting someone in a nightclub is in no way the best place to meet a girl. You can't initiate a conversation with them, well not one that you can actually gain any substance from. In fact it is very difficult to even remember what the girl's name the next day.

It appears that in most nightclubs you would be drunk anyway, so what is the point of being all up for going out on the town and into nightclubs if you are looking for a relationship. There is going to be very little chance that a woman you meet in a nightclub is going to be a woman you initiate a relationship with. It is more likely you will end up with a one night stand as opposed to a relationship.

If you do manage to get a decent conversation with a girl, and somehow build a rapport and maybe even a phone number then you could end up with something. There are of course exceptions to the rule, there always are. And you may even know someone who has met their girlfriend in a nightclub. If they have then good luck to them. But even if you are able to get a relationship out of it, it is unlikely that it will last very long.

There is no easy way to say that your girlfriend is promiscuous. But if you met her in a bar then the chances are she had enough confidence to go out on her own and try pull a guy. If she can do this now, then she can do it again. And starting a relationship with a girl that you have no mutual interests with and no common ground with is a recipe for disaster. In fact it is most likely the relationship will burn out after a few weeks when you realize you don't have as much in common as you first thought.

There will be no doubt success stories of people meeting in bars and clubs all across the world, and sustaining a healthy strong relationship, but there are also many failures. To ensure that you are able to meet someone you can actually build a relationship with, it is probably best to look anywhere but a nightclub. Try existing friends of friends that you may have met once or twice. Then you will have common ground and something to talk about.