A lot of guys struggle with not knowing where to meet women. A question that a lot of guys ask me is: "Where do I meet quality women?" It's a good question, but the answer is simple. Actually, I take that back. it's not a good question, but I do understand the frustration. And the answer is: You can meet quality women everywhere. The good news is, once you realize this, it will be difficult to maintain the belief that women are hard to find. Let's face it, if you're in a slump it can feel as though women are scare. (More intellectually: That good women are scarce).
Here's a list of places that you can meet women.
1. Gym
2. Bookstore
3. Club
4. Bar
5. Festival
6. Party
7. Gas station
8. Trade Show
9. Grocery store
10. Parking Lot
11. Jogging outside
12. Retail store
13. Park
14. Convenient store
15. Car shop (in the waiting area)
16. Any place that has a waiting area
You see, the ONLY WAY the idea of meeting women can appear hard is if:
You have a perspective that needs adjusting and/or zero game plan. Some guys mistake not being prepared with "not knowing where to find women".
Here's a simple game plan, in terms of being prepared: Break up the process of approaching women into simple parts.
Part One: The things that you do before you approach her (i.e. doing something that gets you in an upbeat mood)
Part Two: How you approach her -- in other words, how to start the conversation. (i.e. knowing how you're going to start the conversation)
Part Three: Having an idea of what to say after you start the conversation. (i.e. talking about the current situation, asking questions about her, small talk, a complimentary style conversation, etc.)
Once those three parts are crystal-clear in your mind, the only thing that you need to do is remember that there are lots of women already interested in you - even if you have a horrible game plan for introducing yourself to her.
It's almost like imagining a map of your country.
And there are lots of these little red dots all over the map representing these women. Some will be attractive. Some will be average. Some will be not-so attractive.
I'm not saying that every woman on the planet will think you're the most amazing guy, but there will be some (more than you could ever handle) that are scattered throughout the country (and even OTHER COUNTRIES!) that are interested in you.
You see, when your perspective is upgraded, these red dots began to multiply like crazy with the slightest adjustment.
When your strategy (game plan) is also upgraded, these red dots began to multiply like crazy (even more) with the slightest adjustment.
Some women are not going to be interested in you whether you like it or not.
Some women are going to be interested in you whether you like it or not.
So any time a guy asks me for advice for approaching women, I want to find out if he is actually taking action, because some guys think they have a "game plan" problem - or that they are struggling with find women - when in reality, they are not talking to women.
It's kind of like a business that's complaining that customers aren't buying when they're not advertising.
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