Body Language to Attract Women

What's the best body language to attract the woman you want? Should you be cool and laid back? Uptight and nerdy? Detached and aloof? Seriously... what is the best method of attracting that special someone? Depending on the girl it's probably just a matter of seeming comfortable. Giving off a vibe that you are carefree and capable of interacting with her easily will make it easier for her to approach you if and when she does. Try leaning back if you are sitting, in a comfortable stance, not drawing attention to yourself but also not being introverted and shy. It's important to always be conversational in your tone and never get too attached to just one girl. If a girl knows that you really like her, it can be a turn off! It's kind of funny, but true. Therefore, keep a detached and non-clinging attitude at all times and never show if you are infatuated or too interested. Keep in mind that showing your interest is never as important as getting her to like you. Do you like her? Fine... but who cares? A million other guys probably like her too. Focus on getting her to like you, not by being sweet and nice, but by giving off the cocky and confident vibe that is attractive to girls. If a girl feels that you don't need her, she may start to need you. This is not an exaggeration... it can be very true.

While this can seem complicated, it's actually pretty simple. Getting a girl to feel like she needs you, not the other way around, is as simple and portraying yourself as more in charge and confident than her. If you actually are more confident and in charge, then it can be easy. If you aren't, it can be something that you can fake. It's just a matter of giving yourself the right to pretend that you have all the answers. Having said that, different girls are different. What you'll find is that a girl who is more comfortable with her femininity, i.e., a "nice" girl, will be more comfortable with you being a little self-effacing and gentle. A girl who is less comfortable with her femininity, will want you to be a "manly-man" so that she can feel feminine in comparison. It's a pretty simple equation when you think about it, right? It shouldn't be too hard for you to tell the difference between these two types of females, but if you should ever wonder, just remember that if you get left alone at the end of the night, you probably misjudged.