3 Secrets of Connecting Emotionally to the Women You Want to Attract

Your ability to connect emotionally with women is a crucial factor when it comes to attraction. Without this important skill you will find it difficult to successfully start relationships. You may keep getting stuck after a couple of dates.

This is a skill that you will use for the rest of your life not only to attract the women you want, but also to keep them. Let's take a look at three essential secret of it works.

1. Do your homework first - Before you can connect with a woman you have to take a deep look into yourself.

You need to know what holds you back from receiving and sharing emotions. You are likely to notice a lot of suppressed fear and anger.

Here is an exercise you can do: find a place where nobody can disturb you. It's best to do this in a location where you feel safe.

Take a pen and a notepad. You are going to write down all the things that make you angry with yourself. Allow your emotions to feel freely. If you begin to cry, just let your tears flow.

You will find that your eye will open to a lot feelings you are currently unaware of. Once you do this exercise you will become more relaxed when you interact with women.

2. Become an "active" listener - When you let a woman speak her mind, without interrupting her, she will feel understood.

This may seem weird but you a woman will find herself really connected with you when you don't judge what she says to you. To make this work it's important to understand that she may simply want to bring out what's on her mind. She is not necessarily looking for help or an opinion.

The secret to being a great conversationalist is to let the other person talk more than you.

3. Learn to reveal yourself - When you show the woman you want to attract a bit of your "hidden" self it immediately increases the feeling of connection between the two of you.

However, you must be careful with this - revealing too much, too soon may send the wrong signal. It will also encourage her to express herself more freely.

In any case, being honest usually works wonders. Women are used to guys trying pick-up lines and gimmicks on them. It's very unusual for them to meet a man who approaches them with truth.