How To Attract A Woman In The Daytime With Grounding Stories

If you want to know how to attract a woman during the daytime, you should be prepared for lots of talking. This isn't a nightclub where the music's loud, the alcohol is flowing and people are basically there to hook up. Instead, you need to have some "real"conversation to be successful.

Grounding stories work really great for this. These are stories that give you some background, tell her some things about you, and introduce a whole bunch of talking points to keep the conversation going.

You should start with an opener or pre-opener, and follow it up with a cold read on her and a compliment. Once you've got her complying with talking to you, you need to give her a good grounding story as soon as possible.

For example, you might tell her that it seems weird to suddenly talk to people, but you're a writer so you spend all day with words and don't actually speak to anybody. Or that, because you're a writer, you're interested in other people and their experiences. Remember that this is after giving her a cold read and emphasizing her uniqueness. You're showing her that you're a unique person as well.

One of the great things about grounding stories is that you can use them to turn a weakness into a strength. For example, you're opinionated, or you don't get out enough. You can use these ideas as bait or compliance triggers, and they encourage her to talk about herself and qualify herself.

You can ask her things like, "Why am I blabbing like this to you?" or "Do you consider yourself open-minded?" These are things that will get her to qualify herself and keep the conversation going. You can use any female stereotype - independent, smart, crazy, etc. The whole idea is just to get a qualification from her.

A great way to do this is to establish a pattern of you telling grounding stories with her occasionally qualifying herself. During the course of the story, you use her qualifications to guide what you're saying.

Then, finish it off with an instant date. This means suggesting that the two of you go somewhere else. It can be anywhere, but the point is to get her moving. When the two of you go somewhere together, it creates compliance and makes her feel like she's known you longer.

For your day game, take your time. If you find the right girl (one who is alone and staying somewhere for a while), you can master these techniques on how to attract women, but be patient. It takes longer, but it's well worth it.