How To Win A Girl In 3 Easy Steps

When you talk about "how to win a girl" can I take it you mean how to win her over, that is to get her to at least like you, and perhaps to date you?

The point is that whether you're looking for a long term relationship or just a bit of fun that will probably just be a one night stand the same rules apply.

After all, the objective is to get the girl to like you, right? Without that, nothing happens, but with that done, well, almost anything's possible.

1. Making yourself attractive to girls.

I need hardly say that no girl is going to consider getting friendly with a tramp who hasn't washed in weeks, wears clothes that first saw the light of day several years ago and haven't been changed since, and whose breath can stop a charging horse at 20 paces. Not unless she's a tramp herself, of course.

So I take it you're a fairly clean type of guy, who dresses in accordance with the prevailing "dress code" of your social group. And that you also speak normally, at least for your part of the world, and don't turn incredulous heads every time you open your mouth. Yes? Good. Let's move on.

2. Attracting a girl you'd like to "win".

What do girls want when they're relaxing or socialising? They want fun, right? And who's going to help them have fun?

Someone who is sitting there with a sour expression, looking at people remotely, with their mind somewhere else? Or someone who is obviously having fun, frequently laughing, with an engaging, sincere smile and a twinkle in their eye?

Are you that smiling, laughing person, who looks like he knows how to win a girl? I hope so. Are you ready with a witty remark for a girl who catches your attention? Will you follow it up with a warm smile and a quick glance right into her eyes?

Do you exude friendliness and sincerity? Are you ready to chat about things that, even though you know and care little about them, are important to her?

If you tick all these boxes then you won't have to wait long.

3. Winning her over.

There's really only one thing you need to know here. Nearly every girl, when she's relaxing, socialising, and having fun, is looking for a man (if she's not already with one) who doesn't just know how to date women, but can give her a little "magic carpet ride", or who holds out the promise that he can do so.

A man who will raise her spirits and make her forget, for a while, all her immediate problems, who will treat her as if she's somehow different - more desirable - than other girls.

And not just that, but a man who won't be all over her like a rash five minutes after meeting her. A man who will give her respect and not just treat her like an object of desire. A man who dangles the prospect of some fun and affection before her (but don't smother her with it).

Is that man you? You'd better make sure it is, because your answer to that question is going to decide it.

That, my friend, is how to win a girl.