Monday, April 18, 2011

Short Guys and Tall Women



Just because you might be a short guy, it does not mean that you cannot end up attracting a tall women if that is what you want to do. For some reason though, a lot of short men will tell themselves that they cannot attract a tall woman. If height is an issue for you and you want to make sure that it does not have to be that way anymore, pay close attention. Short guys end up attracting tall women all of the time, and you can be one of those ones that do as well.

While it is true that some women will make a judgment based on your height, that does not include all women. And, with the right attitude and outlook on dating and with the right techniques, you can be one of those short guys that seems to have no problems at all attracting a women who is taller than you. Don't allow yourself to think that you cannot get with a woman who is taller than you, because you can.

Here's some advice on how to attract a woman who is taller than you, even as a short guy:

1. Your height only becomes an issue when YOU make it an issue.

I am sure that you have seen guys who are of average or even below average height with a woman who is taller than them before, so you should be aware that it does not have to be an issue unless you decide to make it one. If you are thinking about the fact that a woman is taller than you, and it becomes an issue for you, then you are going to give off that kind of vibe. If you don't make it out to be an issue, then chances are, neither will she.

2. When you highlight the best parts of your personality, then it does not matter what your height is.

What a lot of men don't seem to realize is, that most women are not nearly as concerned with a man's looks as much as they are the kind of guy he is. You can be a tall guy and be completely engulfed in yourself and turn off women. And you can be a short guy who knows how to have a good time and how to make a woman feel the same way and do very well when it comes to dating and attracting women.

3. Use humor as a way to deflect attention and re-frame your height situation.

Humor can be a very effective way to turn things around if you are shorter than a woman you want to date. Using humor as a way to deflect attention away from the fact that a woman may be taller than you can make it become a non issue or even a plus for you. To do this, you want to re-frame the situation in a funny way. You can say something to the effect of, "I usually don't date women your height, but this time I might make an exception."



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