Monday, April 18, 2011

Men - Characteristics That Drive Women Away



If you are having any kind of troubles when it comes to attracting or having relationships with women and you want that to change, then it might be a good idea to learn some of the characteristics that will generally drive women away from you. It's not that uncommon for a guy to end up wondering what he did wrong when he either gets dumped by a girlfriend or he just does not seem to be able to make things click with the women that he meets.

When you are aware of what the possible reasons why you might be driving women away from you, then and only then will you be able to make some pronounced changes in both the way that you behave around women and the way that they respond to you. For most women, these are going to be pretty universal, so by being able to understand what drives women away, you can make sure that it does not happen to you.

Here are a few really common characteristics that will drive women away from you:

1. Showing signs of social immaturity, especially in group situations.

Women for the most part are much more social than guys are, at least in the way that they are in a group setting. So, if a woman sees that you are showing signs of social immaturity in group situations, this can end up being something that will turn her off to you. Even though it may not be your forte or one of your strengths you do need to show a woman that you can hold your own and even enjoy yourself in these kinds of settings. You also want to make sure that you don't do anything that can be construed as being socially awkward or immature.

2. Not allowing a woman to have her own voice or her own friends.

There are many reasons why a guy will not allow a woman to have her own voice in a relationship or to have her own friends. One of the most common is insecurity. Another is jealousy. Women are taught to look for these kinds of red flags when they meet a guy, and rightfully so. While it's not unusual to get a little tinge of jealousy or feeling insecure, not allowing her to have a voice in the relationship or to have her own friends is not healthy, and it will drive most women away from you.

3. Making her feel like she is too good for you.

This can be a reason that most guys will have a hard time understanding, due to the fact that so many guys are taught to make a woman feel almost like they are out of a man's league. The problem with doing this, and the reason why it can drive her away, is the simple fact that it makes you out to seem less desirable to her. Of course, you do want to make a woman feel good about herself, but there is such a thing as doing too much to make her feel like you are beneath her and it will usually cause her to lose attraction for you.



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