Relationship Advice for Women! Enlightening Advice Which Will Open Your Eyes for Sure

I am guessing you stumbled upon this article looking for some relationship advice and let me also make a wild guess that maybe you are expecting just another article with advice and tips you've already heard elsewhere.

Well this isn't going to be just any article...What you will read in this article will actually open your eyes to a lot of things. Therefore I hope I have your full attention.

Ready? Ok, let's get to it...

If you consistently feel that he needs to change then you are with the wrong guy...

Are you always on his case expecting him to change and do things differently? Do most of his habits annoy you to bits and you always wish that he should change?

Well I hate to break it to you but you are only building a solid foundation for more frustration and pain in your relationship. You know why? Because, you can't persuade him to change.

A relationship can only be successful when both the partners accept each other with their flaws. If you are always trying to change your man then you two weren't compatible enough to start with.

Drop the idea of thinking - "This is at least better than nothing"...

It frustrates me to my core when I see women who stay in unfulfilling relationships and let it drag on for years. It's difficult to see so many women really selling themselves short and accepting things even when they know they wished for more.

Women follow the theory that it's better to have someone then to be single. Even, if that relationship isn't fulfilling enough. You know what? This is the perfect way to make yourself more miserable.

Women who do this actually get further away from their goal of happiness and true love rather than close to it.

Drop the idea that being single is a curse. Stop taking any man who comes your way. The only way to be happy is to go for what you want.

If it's not mutually beneficial then it's not a relationship anymore...

Do you know when a relationship is truly a relationship? It's when both the partners are working towards making each other happy. Which means; both the partners are putting in equal efforts.

When one partner works harder than the other is the time when it's not a relationship anymore.

If you are the one who always has to -

• Do more.


• Work more.


• Be there for him.


• Make him happy.


• Invest more.

And in return he isn't doing the same...Then it's an uneven deal. And will always leave you unhappy and unfulfilled.

Why are you waiting to be happy?

Really think about this...Why are you waiting for happiness?

It's strange to see women who get into relationships to make them happy and they do feel happy for a while but then they get into a new situation where they assume - If X thing happens in my relationship then I will be happy again.

So I'll wait for X to happen.

Guess what? Even if that X thing happens it's not a guarantee that you will feel permanently happy. You can't feel completely happy if you are always waiting for things to happen.

Happiness won't happen by itself you actually have to make it happen. If you consistently have to wait for certain things to happen in your relationship before you feel happy then you are in the wrong relationship.

Ask yourself - Is this what I expected out of my relationship? Is this what I always wanted?

I am not saying that all relationships are perfect but if you find yourself being more sad than happy then you are definitely not in the right spot.

Relationships are "NOT" difficult...

It's funny how women complain that relationships are hard work. You have to work at it...Do certain things regularly etc.

Even some dating/relationship guru's talk about relationships and say that they are actually difficult. Well here is some truth - No they aren't. And if you are in a relationship which is hard then again you are with the wrong person.

Relationships aren't supposed to be difficult. When you are with the right person and you two share a good level of compatibility and comfort then it will never be difficult.

It is only difficult when you are with the wrong person. This is something most relationship gurus don't even discuss. They tell you to stay in the relationship and make it work.

And some people even claim that you can make it work. But let me ask you this - How long can you walk wearing a size 7 shoe when you have a size 9 foot?

I am sure you can walk a few hours but after that it will only leave you with a sore foot. And that's exactly what happens when two incompatible partners get into a relationship. They walk with each other for a while but eventually it will start hurting and that's the time when both of them need a new shoe.

Important points -

• You can't change a guy to become more compatible with you.


• It's better to be alone and wait for the right person to come along instead of being with the wrong person and waiting for him to become right.


• A relationship will only make you happy when your man puts in equal efforts towards you as you do towards him.


• A relationship won't be difficult when you two share a bond of mutual understanding and compatibility. A relationship won't be easy when you two are always clueless about what the other is going to do.