Want to know really how to get a girl in bed? It's all about movement. Movement builds sexual attraction by creating a situation of compliance. It also makes her fell like she's known you longer than she has.
If you can get her to move with you around the bar or club twice, you can get her to leave the place with you. This goes for anywhere and not just bars or clubs. When she moves with you, it's like you're in a relationship with each other already. It also creates compliance in her mind; she's complied to moving with you, and this grooves her compliance for further things.
Every salesman knows that if they can get you to comply to something small, it's only a matter of waiting for the right moment and you'll comply with something bigger. Ever went shopping looking to spend $60 on something and you ended up spending $300? That's the technique of compliance. When you move and she moves with you, she's complied to a small thing. Later, she'll comply to more.
Getting her to another bar drastically changes your relationship with her. At the last bar, you came separately and just met. At the second bar, you came together. You're WITH her. You're no longer a stranger or (in her mind) a guy she just met, and this changes everything about the two of you.
This situation creates social isolation. You and her are now a group, and you can carry out a conspiracy against the other people in the bar. Isolation is a technique used by cults for mind control; the same thing works when you're trying to learn how to get a girl in bed.
Once you've gotten her away from the group, it's really easy to escalate things in a sexual way. You can say something like, "Everybody's trying to keep us from talking, what's up with that?" and then move her to another part of the bar. What you've effectively done is told her, "Don't worry about what other people think. Do what YOU want to do."
You'll be amazed at how easily this works. First, you move her around the club. Then you move her to another place. The next movement is into a cab heading to your apartment. It can really be that simple, especially if employed along with other seduction techniques.
When you want to know how to get a girl in bed, it all starts with getting her to another part of the bar. Then to another bar, then to your place, and that's about all she wrote. Give it a try and you'll be amazed with the results.
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